@poachedmeggs
strap in yall it’s about to get messy. just need to vent on a platform where people who don’t know me can hear my frustration. scenario: close friend of mine got married in january & her best friend, a mutual friend of ours from college, didn’t go because she had to take her 28 year old boyfriend to the hospital for a…stomach ache? i cut her off because she wanted validation for missing the wedding & she in general has just been toxic recently. fast forward a few months: she texts my now married friend saying the real reason she couldnt come was because she was pregnant (only 4 weeks at the time, still very much able to attend a wedding. also if you’re best friends wouldn’t you want to tell her that????) but anyways…at some point she miscarried which IS SAD, not saying it’s not, HOWEVER SHE BLAMED THE MISCARRIAGE ON THE GIRL WHO GOT MARRIED SAYING SHE MADE HER STRESSED FROM THEIR STRAINED FRIENDSHIP. Like dafaq is that???!!! continued in comments.