good evening bopdrop nation 🤝 big fan of over sharing on this app so here’s my current dilemma that I don’t really want to share with irl friends yet. my bestfriend of 15+ years lives in the next big city like an hour from me, I’ve been to visit her here countless times throughout college and now that I’ve graduated. I know a lot of her friends here and feel very accepted and welcomed and I’m currently having the crashout freak out that I would be SO MUCH happier living here than my hometown where I don’t rlly have a network of people my age. but this is her college town, and I fear of feeling crazy imposter syndrome amongst her friends and also like I’m taking over her city/space if I did ever want to live here. I also just started my job in July where it would be smart to stay for at least a year so I wouldn’t have to be an orientee if I did move jobs. In conclusion I dislike postgrad and I wish my friends could live in my pocket wherever I go